Joys and struggles of being a Priest - Visit To Loyola Jesuit

On a recent Career Day at a loyola jesuit school, I had the privilege of delivering a lecture to the children about the joys and struggles of being a priest. As I stood before the eager faces of young students, I felt a deep sense of responsibility to share my personal experiences and insights, offering them a glimpse into the rewarding yet challenging path of serving God and the community.

I began by highlighting the immense joy I find in my vocation. I spoke passionately about the privilege of celebrating Mass and administering the sacraments, particularly the Eucharist. "Each time I hold the consecrated host in my hands and say the words of consecration, I am in awe of the miracle that takes place," I shared. "To be able to bring Christ to the people and to be a vessel for His love and grace is truly humbling and fulfilling." I also emphasized the joy of guiding and supporting parishioners through life's ups and downs. "Whether it's celebrating a joyous occasion like a wedding or baptism, or offering comfort and strength during difficult times like illness or loss, being there for people in their moments of need is incredibly rewarding," I said.

"Every child deserves a future free from fear. Together, we can turn that promise into a reality."

While the joys of priesthood are many, I acknowledged that the path is not without its challenges. I spoke candidly about the sacrifices required, such as the vow of celibacy and the demands on my time and energy. "It's not always easy to be available 24/7 for the people," I admitted. "There are times when I need to step back and take care of myself spiritually and emotionally." I also addressed the difficult task of navigating complex moral and ethical issues in a rapidly changing world. "As a priest, I am called to uphold the teachings of the Church while also being a compassionate and understanding presence," I explained. "It's not always easy to find the right balance, but I strive to always act with integrity and to lead by example."

Throughout my lecture, I emphasized the importance of finding one's true vocation in life. I encouraged the children to pray and reflect on their own gifts and passions, and to consider how they might use them to serve others. "God has a plan for each of us," I said. "It's our job to listen to His call and to follow where He leads, even if it's not always easy." The children listened with rapt attention, asking thoughtful questions and sharing their own aspirations. Many expressed admiration for my dedication and courage, and several even voiced an interest in pursuing a religious vocation themselves.

As my lecture drew to a close, I left the children with a final message: "Remember, whatever path you choose in life, strive to live with purpose, compassion, and a deep love for God and His people. If you do that, you will find true joy and fulfillment, no matter the challenges you face along the way."

Fr Ben Onyemechalu

Priest of the Catholic Archdiocese of Abuja, multipotentialite, founder and creative director at FadaBen Creations, child advocate, youth animator, community builder, goal oriented personality with a penchant for generating innovative ideas and solutions through music, arts and culture, all aimed at addressing societal issues. A Musician, Songwriter, Music Producer, with great interest and love for photography, videography, editing, community development, smartphone creative adventures, amongst others. Associate Chaplain of Catholic Archdiocesan Choir of Abuja, and current Parish Priest of St Andrew Catholic Church, Orozo, Abuja, Nigeria.

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